When I was in college, our professors had pounded into our heads that when you follow a lead, always, and I MEAN ALWAYS, seek out both sides of the story. But as the years passed by, I was made a aware of the fact that people are ALWAYS biased. They will always listen to or believe the story they heard first or if they are particularly close to a certain person, they will choose a side. That’s how the world works. People will never seek you out to hear your side of the story.